I’m already 19 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, I usually just date people and I don’t date much either… usually I end up being too busy and just stop seeing the person or I end up in the “friend zone”, which happens a lot.
What do girls look for in a guy anyways? That their funny, that they have money, their really confident or that they are good looking? What should I do to stand out more? Am I being too nice to girls? Cause apparently girls like jerks, should I just be more cocky? I usually go for white girls, so is it just because I’m Asian?
I’m in the CF reserves (or what Americans call the national guard), is that a turn off for girls? I dress kind of preppy, usually dress shirts, jeans, etc, is that lame or something?
Am I just ugly? Would you date me? http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/NSZ4BL7GEDUT…
I’m planning to hitting the bars more this summer to find myself an amazing girl, so any advice would help, I don’t mind advice that’s blunt/honest, I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong

You’re good…you’re not bad. I look for smartness, cuteness, and I’d like the man to be athletic. I’d like him to not cheat on me, I’d like him to like me inside and outside, not just on the outside, I’d like him to stand up for me, I’d like him to never leave me…I don’t know…I haven’t dated either, but I’m still a little girl…
What girls look for in a guy:
Sweetness
Maturity
Not embarressed by how smart the girl is
a good personallity
funny
honest
what guys look for in a girl:
figure
hotness
dumb blonde
etc.
See a difference? every girl wants a guy that will be more like her list.
just act urself. cuz if u change, ur not being who you are cuz then you’ll just be acting in a relationship. and just try to be more confident. thats the number one thing all girls look for no matter wat u look like, how u dress, etc.
not ugly…. and ur gonna go to the bars? not a good place to find girls werever u like to go hang find a girl there that way it can be like yalls place and yall will both enjoy the enviroment
I like guys with awesome personalities.
it all depends on the person’s personality. We all like different things.
If you have an honest passion for a grrl, she will respond. What U R not admitting here is that you want a grrl who is convenient for U, not gonna happen unless God luvs U a lot.
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btw – the grrls in Ontario R incredibly horny and passionate, U must B doing something terribly wrong, and yes, grrls don’t like guys who are ***-kissers, you have 2 challenge them, lead them, and make them feel something, love or hate it does not matter but U have 2 make them emotionally respond to U.
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d@mn I almost was going 2 move 2 Ontario. grrls from ontario posted n00d pix on the web daily in the day when msn groups and yahoo groups were phunn.
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Meet grrls at the pool or at the beach.
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i dont think its because your ugly or not cocky or anything like that its probly just because you havent found your perfect match and i would date you if i didnt have a boyfriend well some girls (who aare down to earth and not full of therselves) like sweet guys who are brave but kindof quiet but they dont like overly cocky guys we want guys who love us and want to make us happy!!! girls dont like drunk guys unless there drunk to so watch your drinkin lol
no one likes a jerk maybe those girls arent the girls for u find a girl that has many things in common befor u date her. dont go to bars thats the worse place to find a girlfreind most of thm are slutty. school is a good place =lol anywere is aa good place except the bar…. u gatta be ureself talk bout things u like nd she likes…. connect.. flirt with her when u no u like her. hope this helped