Don’t feel love or empathy, but knows how to act to make the demeanour fit the situation.
Married and have children, have never abused the spouse or the children.
Manipulates and lies, but doesn’t bother with little meaningless lies.
Feels remorse and shame over mistakes, and changes behaviour to avoid future mistakes.
Don’t care about animals but have pets and treat them well.
Haven’t worked for many years and has never had a steady job.
Lies to look better and greater, doesn’t leave the home or aspire for greatness in reality.
Has a multitude of profiles on different dating sites and s/m sites in the purpose of manipulating people for the thrills. Wins the trust of members and spend much time giving advice about how to recognize online predators.
Has a dominant personality but doesn’t force it on other persons.
Has never committed violent crimes but is a thief, has never been caught for any crime.
Understands that it’s not “normal” to be and act that way.
Pretends to have no secrets but becomes unbalanced if someone comes close to revealing one of the secrets.
Acts, looks and behaves “normally”.

Sounds totally normal to me, Why do you ask?
I would talk to someone. your wife first and probably a doctor. I cant say for sure whats wrong but talking will help. GOOd luck
I think an evaluation would be warranted.
no,..you’re not a sociopath, at all…you might just be someone with not a real strong emotional expressiveness…meaning, you are in touch with yourself, but don’t hurt others,.just don’t make a big deal out of things…some people are just like that…a sociopath, could kill someone, fit in and get away with it and feel no remorse, and actually laugh about it.