ok i was just browsing my gf myspace when i saw something that i never really payed any attention to so i clicked it it was to a different profile an on it was 3 comments by my gf 1 on june 20 another on june 21.
here 2 comments well 1st one YES BABY WHY U ASKIN an the other was well i have to tell u something and talk to u but im not tellin u on here so text me when ever u want to but text me sometime tonight ok baby..
an now im pissed off because i started talkin to here around june 17 or 16 (actually she was the one who ask me out an she ask me out on the 20th but i told her i think about it an then said yes to her on the 21st) started talking an we started dating on june 21 but this means that she had a bf at the time an i didnt knoe about it. i have had ppl tell me she is cheating on me which i yet to see any proof an my gf she says has never cheated or talk with other guys why we were talkin about going out with one another so now my view on her has change completely cause i have always believe her over everyone else but lately everything she does an says has been wierd. ( like today she didnt awnser none of my calls or text which i knoe she is up to something.) an idk if i really trust her now. do you think this something to make a big deal out of cause i love her an told her i want 2 be with her cause really i feel like she is the one an she has said the same to me. but ive told her that if i ever caught her lying to me i would walk away from her right then an there that if she ever had anything to confess now was the time she did one or two small things but since then no lies but now i feel if she lies to me about this then i have to walk away no matter how much it hurt me..
Do i ask her about it an make something of it or try to just forget it??
AN is it right to tell her that if i catch her lying about anything that i just walk away.. after all she is only girl i have ever loved??
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David.. I am sorry to say that this long distance relationship does not appear to be working for you and your gf. One minute you are in love the next minute you are “pissed off.” For example, in one of your questions you wanted advice as to how you could obtain a loan in order to purchase a ticket so you could visit her during her illness. That was a very kind and loving gesture. Now, you are upset about something that happened when you first started dating. To answer your question, you should not say anything to her about this because it was a long time ago.
The long distance away from her in addition to the age difference and the fact that she is still in high school is too much drama for both of you to deal with. You should re-think the relationship. Take into consideration that she is just now going through some of the things that you have already experienced.
I’m not saying that you should walk away, but you should understand the relationship for what it is. Being unable to see each other on a regular basis, makes for unnecessary suspicions. You are suspicious as to why a call or text-message was not returned, etc. You must remember that she is 18 and a senior in high school. Let’s hope she is doing what you also should be doing at this time… learning… growing and seeing other people. Take Care.
is this a girl that you know in real life?
I’d ask, why wonder, and doubt? its better to find out now rather have doubts, cause if you don’t trust then what do you have in the end?
You should definitely ask her about it if it’s bothering you.
Yeah, I definitely think it’s okay to walk away if you catch her lying. It’s better to love yourself more than to love someone who would treat you like a fool.
1) Use proper punctuation if you want your questions to be answered.
2)Yes, she is cheating. Your instincts are telling you that already. Trust your instincts.
3)You laid down an ultimatum. She is lying. You know that. Now you have to follow through and walk out. If you don’t she will just keep lying.
The Good News: There are plenty of beautiful young girls out there who wont cheat. Go find one.