Should I Met Up And Stay In Contact With Him?

I have recently found my ex boyfriend, who I dated at school on facebook. We were good friends before we started dating. We dated 8 years ago and the break up left me feeling low and depressed. The break up was partly to do with our friends not getting on with us. He treated me very badly and it carried on though college too. We were both on the same course at college. I never knew where I stood with him. He kept giving me mixed signals. Once I left college I felt like to much happened betweem us to stay friends, so I keep away and moved out of the area. I have always felt like I have never found closer within myself and the whole episode has been hanging over me for eight years. To this day I still deeply affected by what went on. I don’t love him anymore, but always felt there was something behide his behaver. It will never justerfile the way he carried on. A few months ago, I was looking though facebook at people I used to know and came across my ex. I saw his profile and he was dating a bloke. It was a shock at first, but everything started falling into place and I decided to send him a message. As soon as I did he replyed. We got talking and he told me he came out gay to his family and friends three years ago and he kinda felt different thoughout his life. I feel at last I have got the closer I so long for and I feel sorry for him. The problem is, he wants to meet up, when I am in the area, but not sure if I should meet up with him, I have not seen him in five years since leaving college. I no longer look at him in that light anymore. Any advice would be welcome

1 comment to Should I Met Up And Stay In Contact With Him?

  • mark

    hi h,
    just forget abt the past.
    think wat if u haven’t see his profile in facebook,
    move in tat way.
    remove tat day in ur life calendar.
    take care.

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