he’s 21 and I am 24 read his profile and anyone tell me if you would go out with him or not.
PROFILE
Hi, I’m Spencer. I’m a new christian. Until about 6 months ago I had never attended church very much and I have had a pretty rough past. I’ve been in and out of jail and all though jail is a pretty bad place to be I think that the last time I went to jail was the best thing that ever happened to me because it just so happened that this guy named Andy would go to the jail and preach to the inmates weekly and he helped me to accept the Lord into my heart. When I got out of jail I was invited to his church and because he had been so nice to me and didn’t look down on me like alot of other churches had I decided to go. To be honest I didn’t think that I would keep going because I figured that they would look at me as an outcast because of the things that had happened in my life but surprisingly they welcomed me with open arms and hearts and now that church is like a second home to me and I love it and all the people that attend it. Andy helped me accept the Lord into my heart and we are now close friends and we also work together. I know now that if you give your life to the God that no one can ever hurt you unless it is his will. I have learned that he controls every little detail in your life and I can’t wait to fulfill his plan for me!!!! I love him with all of my heart and I have turned from my sinful ways. I’m kinda new at this christian thing still but it’s been truly amazing so far and I’m not really looking for anything because I know the Lord will take care of me. but the qualities that are most important to me is what’s on the inside. I don’t care if your big, small, short or tall. All I care about is that your a true christian and that you live for God. I want a girl who will help me live my life for God. If your one of those judgemental people then don’t bother writing me because I’m not the kind of guy you want to talk to. But if not feel free to write. If you have any questions just ask. I’m brutally honest and I know that I’m forgiven for all of my sins through the blood of Jesus and I’m not ashamed of my sins although I do regret them but no one is perfect so why try to be. Just do your best to live for the man up stairs and he will take care of you. Well I hope to hear from you soon.
AND THESE ARE THE MESSAGES HE HAS SENT ME DOES HE SOUND SARCASTIC
1ST MESSAGE
hi, I’m spencer as you already know. I have been in trouble with the law before but that is all over now. I’m no longer that guy I put that on my profile so that people would know because I want to meet someone that won’t judge me for my past. I know I messed up and I paid the price and I’m square now and don’t plan to go back. I was born again and I’ve excepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and my life has truely changed amazingly. I love life now and I actually have a few friends that are into law enforcement and fire rescue and things of that nature. In fact, I’m planning on joining the volunteer firefighters soon. I just hope that I can get in and pass the physical and everything which I’m sure I can. I understand that your going into law enforcement and I will understand if you don’t wanna give me a chance because of my past and if you don’t it’s cool. Well I hope to hear from you soon but if not……God bless and have a wonderful night. Thank you for your time.
Spencer~
2ND MESSAGE
Hey, I wasn’t in prison just jail and no I don’t hang out with those kind of people anymore. (lol) I am turning my life around and I try to surround myself with good law abiding christians. I don’t want anything to do with that old life I had. So you don’t have to worry about me getting into trouble. (lol) well anyway I hope to hear from you soon.
Have a nice day.
Spencer~
Women I need you advice would you consider dating him or not?
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NOOOOOOOOOO! unless you wanna get rapped, !
Totally avoid him. He sounds like he’s gay.
no. it sounds too open. something is up.
Thats a hell to the no!! He’s a fruit basket!
NO
NO
give him a chance
NO………too much baggage……….
If he ever saw these messages, you probably wouldn’t be getting any more. These things are private (the messages, not his profile) and should be kept private.
But moving on…
If you think he deserves a chance, give him one. Just because he was in and out of jail doesn’t mean anything if he truly has changed. Granted, some or most people would be hesitant, but like I said give him one if you think he could be an okay guy. I think you’re at least considering it, if you’re posting all this info on here looking for opinions.
Personally, I’m not into online dating site, but give it go. What’s the worst that can happen if your going about these situations safely.
Absolutely not. This sounds really creepy and scary, and although I hate to judge someone I do not know- that is the point.
You do not know him. The christian things sounds like a complete cover up, why would some one feel such a strong need to explain themselves, and also try to get a hold of you? A stranger?
You know the stories. Not all of these guys get caught, and they just multiply. Internet predators…andthat’ss what my first thought was in your case. I have goodinstinctss.
I really do not think this is safe and would NOT go for it. Move on to the next guy. And where did you two meet? (If you could please edit and tell us. thanks)
…and actually, I am begging you not fall for this. Be safe
u loco if finking bout going out with this g unit
nooo..its to much risk..just ignore it!!
Honestly, I wouldn’t because you never know if he will do something wrong again to have to go back to jail. You wouldn’t want to start a family with him and then find out he can’t even take care of your children. And besides you could do better than an ex-jailer
No, would not.
it depends on what he was in for..
but i would give him a chance
everybody messes up
I absolutely would not. My decision is not because I wouldn’t date someone who went to jail. I have family in jail before, it sucks. My reason would be that it sounds like he is just getting a new start on his life. He is still young. He needs a chance to get out there and live. Instead of focusing on dating he should concentrating on his God, and keeping his life straight until he is sure he can stay on this new found path.
Besides it could be dangerous for you. He could just be another predator. Never date someone without first meeting them occasionally in public places, get to really know the person on the inside, not what they tell you. Actions will always speak louder than words. Good luck with whatever you decide. Be careful, and never meet anyone in private. Make sure it is in the day, and crowded, maybe with a friend of yours along as a kind of double date.
No don’t he might try to use u
I would give him a chance, but only go on a date in a well lit and public place.
As sweet as he sounds, I personally would avoid him. Mainly because I tend to find the people who are obsessed enough with their religion to CONSTANTLY mention it also have a habit of shoving it down peoples throats. I don’t want to cause offence to anyone here and I am REALLLLLLLLLY sorry if I do! I just thought he very excessively talked about finding the Lord! Which is all great and everything, but i suppose its whether you are also religious? Because I’m not which is why i would avoid it.
If you do choose to date him, as I said earlier he does sound sweet and rather genuine, so if you do give him a chance 
I hope you are happy! Hes definitely honest! 
ALSO, are you able to take on that sort of man? I mean do you want a clean cut, turning his life completely around and always good man. Or do you want a man who is a bit of a risk taker? Bit of your stereotypical bad boy
Have fun whatever you do
no do not go out with that kind of boy
if you met him online then definitely no, he could be making all of this up, it does sound sort of corny
He sounds extremely honest about his past and if he’s changed then go for it but be careful as always. It’s yodur decision that matters, do what yout heart tells you.
Hell No!
Don’t judge people alone on their past. Dating is to see if you want to take the next step in life with someone (marriage). Judging people by their pass is just as shallow as judging by their apperance. Now the exception to the rule is if he killed or molested someone, but if he didn’t then you need to give people a chance.
no. i think hes stalking u. i think he wants to get info out of u and rape u. i know what u are taking about. i use to talk to this guy. that talks to me everyday. STOP TALKING TO HIM AND GIVEING HIM INFO AOBUT URSELF
No, I wouldnt, thats just too much to take on
no .sounds dangerous. you dont evedn know him and sounds a bit fake.
His bait is to tell you he has gone from a “bad boy” to someone who has “seen the light”. Don’t fall for this line.
I strongly suggest that you do NOT meet him at all, BUT if you do, take a bunch of friends with you and meet somewhere public like the mall. Also do not give him info about yourself or family or where you work or go to school!
I would not want you to even consider seeing him alone for at least 5 or 6 dates. Really he might be the nices guy at first but really someone you meet off the internet could be any kind of a sleaze ball!
You would be much wiser to date within your friends group.
Good luck with dating and STAY SAFE.
I know Im not a woman but I’ll give my input so you have a guys perspective. First you need to know what he was in prison for. And second can you look past his hopefully former life? If after answering these questions you want to give him a shot but take it slow. Meet in public places and tell friends where you are. Be careful and good luck.
either he’s a complete psycho or he’s a Jesus freak…hopefully its the 2nd one:) maybe you should try to meet him b4 you start dating…just to be sure he isn’t a homicidal maniac, lol
“Spencer” seems very needy. Even if you gave him a chance, I guarantee he would only become more incessant. Ween him off politely (do NOT be abrupt he will go nuts) and pleeeeeeeeease don’t be one of those girls to give him too much personal information!