this guy that i’m seeing is great when we’re alone. he’s cool & down to earth & very respectful. but he portrays himself very different to everyone else. i started to see this side of him recently because i didn’t know much about his career until recently. he acts like a player & hangs out with a lot of nude models and girls that are party animals who do drugs and who i KNOW want him (they hit on him alllll the time & leave him messages on his profiles). he doesn’t do drugs, and he’s not a party animal.
it’s starting to get to me, but i know he does this only for his public image. but i don’t think it’s necessary for him to and i’m NOT going to tell him so! i just want to know if this shows his TRUE personality & do you think he is being fake to me b/c he knows i wouldn’t date him if he didn’t treat me really well? i’m starting to hate his public image but i love who he is when we’re alone behind closed doors! any advice on how to handle this? should i let him go while i still can?
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Hes insecure and feels like he has to change around other people. I would tell him that he doesn’t need to act like that because these people are his friends just because he goes along w them. Ask him if he’s truly happy being around that. Otherwise, i’d find another guy. and you’re not being picky. He is still guilty by association even if he doesn’t drnk NE thing, and that can get you into a lot of trouble w the cops.
One of the biggest mistakes we all make in relationships is thinking we can overlook the things our partner does that annoy us. If its bugging you, and you know he will not change it or can not change it. It will only bother you more and more the longer you two are together. If you think a talk between the two of you might help the situation then you should definitely give that a shot. Communication is the best thing.
are you so certain that his public image isn’t his real personality? sorry but hanging around nude models, party animals, drug abusers, etc., can turn a nice person into one of them. i think for your own sanity you should move on, find someone who is the same. both behind and through open doors.
Its all about respect.If hes hanging out with nude models and theyre hitting on him leaving him messages,where is his respect for you?Even if it IS for his job.Have u ever thought that maybe hes with u a gentleman in private because he IS a player?If ur seeing him and woman r leaving him messages, its HIS responsibility to let them know, hes taken and he doesnt wanna hear it.If hes not doing that, then ur just going to end up getting hurt.If he hasnt told them to stop its because he doesnt want them to.Is that the type of guy u want.Respect urself first.Think about it.
when me and my husband first started dating we went through the same thing, I dnt knw if u believe in GOD or not but i would honesty tell u to pray and ask god to show u if your boyfriend is right for you! once i did that an GOD showed me that he was i told my husband that we needed to sit down an talk i let him know that it’s not right how he acts around his friends in if he really wants to be me he’ll change… true enough he changed… I believe that if you let him know that something is brothering you and he try to change that you should keep him, but if you let him know that its brothering you in he dnt try to change you need to let him go cause its not going work, he’ll be letting you k ow right then that he dnt care about you and your feelings.. now if u keep him and he dnt change you cnt get at him you can only be mad @ YOURSELF!!!! Trust GOD to help you!