I’ve dated my boyfriend for over 3 years now. Living together for 2. I moved from my home state(which is 3,000+miles away) to be with him. I met him on yahoo…and we hit it off. Friendship then moved onto romance. He has done some pretty crule things to me. And yet I forgave him. He is constantly on single sites and when he has profiles on various social networking sites I’ve noticed he does not indicate if he is in a relationship. And portrays himself as a single man., It really hurts my feelings and makes me often wonder why am I even here.
He is on disability and stays home with my two children and his child, I work fulltime outside of the home. He recently got a query keyboard cell phone with the simply everything plan so he has unlimited texting and web usage. He is on yahoo messanger ALL THE TIME….and yes I was a snoop and I looked in his yahoo….and saw some convo’s he had with apprent female friends….needless to say I wasnt too happy….while I’m gone all day working he’s at home chatting it up with other chicks….sucks! I have a hard time trusting him,……because he has lied in the past about who he talks to.
Some of the women he talks to are ones he met online around the same time as we did,,,,,and he tried to make a relationship with them….and he is ALWAYS TEXTING AND CHATTING……wakes in the middle of the night…and basically holds his phone hostage….he hides it an all…..I wouldnt care if he talked to just friends….but the fact he is sooooo secretive about who he talks to and what about is alil nerve racking to me.
I get paid every 2 weeks and give him my whole check except for maybe 50-100 bucks I get to keep for myself….If Im luckey….And I dont even wanna begin on the baby mama drama I gotta deal with….Im sooooo stressed and feel unloved…..I can sit here and watch him talk away to other people and carry on and on….but when I try to talk to him he is all cranky and hard to deal with…
What should I do….I feel stuck cause I have a great job here and recently got a 75 cent an hour raise….and yeah I could move back home but theres no jobs and I would have to start all over again…meaning housing job and home furnitions……..I feel stuck please gimme good advice!!!!!!!!!!
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Since it’s a bad time for you to move back home, you should really consider moving out. He’s taking advantage of you and seems to be very unappreciative and uncaring about the relationship. He’s being shady and you already know he’s having inappropriate conversations with female friends. You don’t want your children to be in that type of environment – thinking that it’s okay to be really secretive, just sitting around, and that taking paychecks from your partner is okay. Leave him. It may hurt to leave, but it’ll be worth it in the end. A guy like that doesn’t deserve your time.
Throw him away he’s probably trying to find someone new to date then leave you like nothing with his new girl. He will probably just take all her money, and use her and if you feel like he’s not the right one then he’s not
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You talk way to much, no wonder hes cheating on you. You dont deserve his ***.
Yeah he sounds like a cheater. Sorry.
WHY THE HELL ARE YOU GIVING HIM YOUR SALARY??? TEACH HIM A LESSON BY DUMPING HE’S NOT WORTH U & YOUR MONEY!!!
if u are a job person and earn enough for you then u should give up him
and enjoy the life
i was cheated on once. i loved this guy with all my heart. he cheated on me with a friend. i was hurt. i said it was over. two weeks later he sweet talked me and i forgave him. only for the next time for him to cheat with someone he met online.
just goes to say a person who does this. is not worth your time. even though you love her. she didnt feel the same or else she wouldn’t have done it. dont take her back at ALL. take your time and heal your wounds and find someone who will equally love you.
try moving out, you’ll feel better, and he shouldn’t choose how to spend your hard worked money. Considering the economy is so bad, make him go get a job.
Im a dude, and i think women deserve the right to keep their pay, as does everyone else
And if hes on a singles site then he wants to cheat atleast
Bottom line id probably break up with him
oh hun, you feel trapped like i do, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;… if you could help me wiht mine
Your happiness is top priorty, dont forget that. what makes you ultimately will bethe way to go. my friend says “trample the living and hurdle the dead” and that in situations liek this you needa be selfish. i understand kids thrown into the mix make it harder, do you want to raise them around someone so womanizing for want of a better word. Good luck however, you will get out of the rutt, you need that money for you, if he has disability he gets money too dont be too selfless there is a limit.
Well i was in a similar situation. Although you may have a good job, i am sure you feel lousy all the time. I would get out of the situation for you and your kids.
first is he working, NO. second you are and giving him your whole check please, baby move on he’s just your boyfriend not your husband , save up some money for a place move out on his ***, see how well he do without you maybe those woman he is sneaking on the phone with could support him, he’s a grown man WAKE UP!