So he contacted me by email through this networking (not dating) website. It was okay, nothing personal, just talking about where we came from, etc,etc. So on the third or fourth email I asked him what his age was and it turned out he was in his mid-forties 
. I figure there’s about a twenty five years age diff between us. Now I’m thinking, doesn’t this guy know my age it’s right there on my profile. Umm, so what the hell does he want out of this? Friendship? (I’m afraid to say) I’m a little freaked out. Should I end this abruptly?
Serious advice please?
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That seems kind of freaky in the first place. You should definitely end it.
That isn’t to say it is wrong for someone in their twenties to be friends with someone in their forties, but you cannot be sure of this guy’s motives, even if he would happen to give you some other excuse.
Keep emailing hem as a friend but if he asks you out, just end it coz he’s probably married
So, are older guys not allowed to talk to young girls now?
As long as the talk does not get personal (as you said) and you don’t agree to meet him, or trade pictures, I think you have to accept it for what it appears to be: TOTALLY INNOCENT.
And, you know, (45-25=20) making you 20 years old, old enough to decide what YOU want, or like, not having to post here to see what others *think*.
He may just need a friend to talk to. Wait until he starts making suggestions or demands. Then end it abruptly.
ummm…..
there is gurls out there that like old men lol hahaha
but hey u wanna kno wat i think
i dnt like old ppl
there nice for grandperants but not sex lol ahahah
its up to ill never *** a 40 year old the maxx is maybe 23 and im 20 so ya its up to u
You are scaring me. I am 55 ,married and have been guilty of the same thing. But i really did not think of it this way. Most older men are just bored. If you think his motives are not honorable,block him. Tell him to F off. He’s probably impotent anyway!
yes end it. he doesnt want friendship
He is in his mid forties your early 20s thats what he wants. A nice young one. Friendship, doubt it middle age men dont have time for young attractive female friends.
P.S. yeah he knows your age is on your profile.
does age really matter ? age is nothing but a time gap, if you think you might like this person and if he might like you then i see nothing wrong. alot of people date and get married 10-20 years age difference.
you could be honest with him and tell him you feel freaked about having a 40 something friend outside of the internet. If he still wants to be your internet fine. OR you could lie to him and tell him that the age on your profile is 23 but that you are in fact 63 but still in your prime. (see if he still wants to meet)
u r on-line baby
just block him and pick another friend
if your freaked out then yes you should end it
STOP! You two will have nothing in common. That is creepy. I think people with an age diffrence can have relationships but I think that you are to young to get involved with man that age.