Me and my boyfriend have broken up over trust issues and restarted our relationship again recently. One of the many lies to me was his use of porn, he knew it made me insecure so told me he’d stop. I caught him so many times back then continuing to watch it. He even went out and bought a new adult video to spite me when we fought. Then said he didn’t get a chance to watch it and he’d throw it out. who even knows if he did. anyway, i came across a profile he created for himself saying he was into certain sorts of bondage and fetish play. I’ve always told him i wanted to try new things like that and he said that was gross and you only do stuff like that with people you don’t respect. He clearly doesn’t respect me if he can lie and hurt me. Along with his interest in fetish that i didn’t know about, he also listed voyeurism, which is the peeping tom sort of thing.kinda perverted. I don’t know if he made this profile while we were apart, but still these kinda secrets bother me.any advice?
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Is My Boyfriend’s Adult Online Dating Profile A Worry?8 comments to Is My Boyfriend’s Adult Online Dating Profile A Worry? |
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Trust and openness is a critical component of a relationship. If he’s been dishonest with you, your best bet is to leave the relationship right there. Another thing is that it sounds to me that you are not compatible on many levels. One’s sex preferences are integral component of a relationship, and if you don’t share them, your relationship will be suffer. The sooner you leave him, the more headache you will save yourself.
Break up with him. Seriously. He has issues, and sounds like he’s a porn and sex addict.
If he’s into voyeurism, he might be watching YOU when you don’t know it. Those are the type of people that you hear about on the news who put cameras in women’s showers and things like that.
He sounds like bad news, and at the VERY least, sounds like he isn’t right for you. You can’t change someone like this.
Just leave him be and let him drown on his perversion ways. You don’t need a guy like him to make your life complicated and this has been become his obsession. Well, if he cant change his way for you, why should you even try?
Just remember, past performance is a guide to future behavior. I think he hasn’t changed and won’t. Sorry…
Forget about him. You don’t need to be with someone who can’t be honest with you. Trust is the foundation of a realtionship. Who knows when he created the profile, but he should have gotten rid of it when you guys got back together. Do you really want a peeping tom kind of guy? Ask yourself this:Is he the kind of guy you would want to spend the rest of your life with? Is he the kind of guy you would want as the father of your children? i think you should find someone else who respects you and is honest with you. There are better guys out there than him. I don’t mean to be rude, but you deserve a lot better than that. Good luck sweetie!
I don’t think you should be searching these sort of sites to see if hes on them, it just makes you feel bad in the end. And if he won’t try new things with you, then hes not worth any of your time. And if it was a big lie the first time, you can bet that there will be a next time. Go on with your life, there is always that someone out ther, my motto is easy come easy go. I think you keep going till you find someone good enough for you. Some people never find someone, but remember it won’t happen if you think that.
Its obvious that he does not like you as much as you think. I mean, porn, ADULT profile. If i ever caught that with my boyfriend, I would end it. Im sorry but I want love life for everyone in the world to be great. LOVE IS A POWERFUL THING!
Dump the putz………. so you wanna learn about bondage huh?