I caught my boyf browsing a dating site last week as I looked at his history on his laptop. He used to be on the site (and I have also ) it before he met me and then took himself off it after he met me. He claims he does not have a profile. I thought it was weird that he was even looking though..it showed that he was must have done a search for women in our city too so it wasn’t just girls all over the country. He says that he was looking at funny profiles too and was not on there to look for someone else cos he is with me. I can’t get it out of my head though. I want to trust him but how do I know that he has not logged in and chatted to these girls? We have been together 3 months…now I am not sure about him.(he is 32 I am 27) Even though I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. He also says thats the only time he has looked on there and he’s with me so why would he be looking for someone else. We have already had a big talk about it. I just can’t forget about it tho for some reason. Help!!
Some of my mates reckon its Ok to browse thru those sites just to see who’s on it for a laugh. It still weirds me out though. Advice please!!! :0
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Is It Wrong For Your Boyf To Browse Dating Sites? Some Male, Honest Answers Please!!?6 comments to Is It Wrong For Your Boyf To Browse Dating Sites? Some Male, Honest Answers Please!!? |
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Trust your instincts. If they’re telling you that something just ain’t right, it probably isn’t.
I met my husband through a dating service and I can tell you that after 3 months of dating him, neither of us were looking anymore because we knew that we had found who we had been looking for.
Well basically it is wrong. Why look unless he is unhappy with you? If he is unhappy he should tell you. On the other hand, he is only a boyfriend. Therefore you and him have no real commitment to each other as if you were married. If you want loyalty, you have to be in a committed relationship and make promises to each other. Otherwise, expect nothing.
Weird but not wrong.
The MASTER would NOT approve!
Unless you are into your boyfriend because he’s a stalker, a player, or a person with such a lack of self-confidence he’s easily tricked, I’d drop him.
You can “browse thru” youtube for funny material; you don’t have to look at other prospective mates for that. Personally, if he’s with you he should have plenty of enjoyment that he doesn’t need to look through other people’s lives for his own.
if he had told you about it at first or INCLUDED you in the browsing for a laugh then it would be ok but he kept it a secret from you I assume and isn’t sharing it with you openly
you could suggest to do it together so as to put off any serious feelings that may arise IF he is being honest about just looking at it to laugh at people