We’ve been together for 1 year and a month and today she told me that her mother found my profile on a “kinky dating site” which I haven’t even used or paid for. For some people it’s considered cheating but I haven’t even spoke with anybody from there. Also what was she doing in that kind of web site?, I mean, or was she trying to sneak on my personal and private matters?, for what reason?.
Now I have to give this explanation to my girlfriend (which I Adore) that It was stupidity and as far as I know I haven’t or have any plans to cheat on her (I’m extremely happy at home). But here is the thing though I’m not going to be under the shadow of anyone, I’m not going to be part of a control freak relationship with anybody and I’m planning to end up everything for my own sake. Is it the right thing to do? (don’t care if it hurts) Please help!!
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Is It Worth It To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Her Mother Found My Profile On A Dating Site?17 comments to Is It Worth It To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Her Mother Found My Profile On A Dating Site? |
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1) You’re under NO obligation to explain yourself to your girlfriend’s mother. The woman stepped over the line.
2) If you truly adore this woman, then work it out in spite of the controlling mother. You’re a man, and you have to put your foot down. Don’t lose someone you love because of an outside factor – you’ll regret it.
3) Explain the truth to your girlfriend, and let her have time to work through it. Relationships are tested all the time. Don’t fail the test, and … again … remind yourself and your girlfriend that this is between you and her. Nobody else.
Did you delete our profile? If you haven’t, you should.
She should understand, esp if you’re not paying for it. Just tell her the truth
Be honest tell her the truth and then ask her mom if she was trying to hook up on the sly her self
after all you said it what was she doing there to start with MMMM mom’s looking for strange I’d say
You never followed through with anyone from the sight, RIGHT? What’s the big deal? If she doesn’t trust you now she will never trust you, and will always be giving you grief.
Hopefully she knows you well enough after the year you have been together to know that it just a misunderstanding.
just explain it happened before you were dating and attached and you really dont belong. beg forgiveness
Good luck and God Bless!!
Just be honest with your girl & forget about her mom…the relationship is supposed to between you two. Take your name off the site if you never use it. I would hope after 1 year you could really be open with her about your past & current intentions! Good luck…
Tell her to trust you and trust your feelings for her, but also let her know that you adore her and show her… shower her with gifts and flowers
oh jeez with the control freak thing. first of all if you are in a committed relationship you shouldn’t feel the need to hide things and if you do you aren’t really all in the relationship anyway. cheating is best defined this way..if you wouldn’t do it with your partner sitting right beside you its cheating, or if you would consider her doing the same thing cheating. it doesn’t sound to me like she’s a control freak, it does sound like you don’t consider her a human being with the right to thoughts and opinions, its her life too and she has every right to choose what she wants as part of it, a couple is supposed to be a partnership not a competition for control, aren’t you trying to control her by not wanting to deal with this? aren’t you saying i want to do whatever i want to do whenever i want to do it and to hec with her? what if that was her attitude? honestly from the sounds of it i think your gf would be alot better off without you and i don’t you are ready to be in a relationship.
What were you doing on that web site? That is probably the question your girlfriend will have for you.
Even if you haven’t talked to anyone from there and are not cheating, what is your profile doing on a kinky dating site? She is going to wonder if there is a side of you that is into some kinky things that she doesn’t know about.
Her asking about it doesn’t make her a control freak, it makes her a normal girlfriend. If you don’t want anyone in your business or inquiring about things that could affect the relationship then maybe you shouldn’t be in one.
If you truly are innocent, and she trusts you, then don’t break up with her. I once knew someone ho took my identity online and thank god I have a wife who trusts me, because I even tried going to the police about this problem. As long as you do everything to get rid of the crap, unsubscribe… It shouldn’t be a problem.
sure..start dating her mum who caught you!!
well i can tell you one thing for sure HONESTY is the one thing a female wants most of all. i feel like she deserves an explanation and as far as how it was found you can type any key word into a search engine and thousands of sites for each word pop up!!!!it is not being controlling to demand an explanation . put the shoe on the other foot, be fair, be honest with her and with yourself . and if its that easy for you to walk away then hey…maybe its time to do just that
No. Don’t break up with her. Talk things through, explain why your profile was there and tell her how much you care about her and wouldn’t want to be with anyone else but her. Talk to her about her mother and tell her how you feel about someone spying on you.. no one should be spied on their spouses/girfriends or boyfriends mother! it shouldn’t be their business if their kid feels happy and they’re not really concerned of their well being. Sounds like you treat your girl well.. if she’s smart, she’ll forgive you!!
if you gave her this explanation and she dosent believe you than its not worth brake up with her cause she does not have no trust in you!!!!!!
no, not if you really like or love her. just explain it to her, if she is worth it, she will understand.
First of all your girlfriend’s mother is NOSEY. She must be depressed herself for her to in her daughter’s life. Is your girlfriend still in high school? I didn’t think so!! Explain to your girlfriend that it was an old page you did before you met her. It may take some for her to cool down and realize how petty the situation is, but she will come around. You may also want to tel how nosey her mom is, in a nice way. It’s like her mom was looking for something that isn’t there. I hope this help you. peace.
Just talk to your girlfriend,it’s between you too,you both have to talk to each other.