I know a girl from work and been dating for two months and we like each other very much.
One day, i was sick i went to her office the next day and she didn’t even looked at me…i told her i was sick and she talked to me in a very formal way. i tried to approach her but she was in a bad mood and it seems that I bugged her by asking what is going on.
After the weekend I went to her office and told her that I would like to call you for a personal matter and she said no I’ll call you when it is the right time. I waited for two days with no luck, then I saw her on the MSN and we talked she told me that the reason is that she have been told by the management of our company not to make a romantic relationships at work and they mention my name because it was clear that we have something going on. In the same conversation I asked her to talk on the phone and she said that she no. in the last working days of last week I bought her a box of chocolate and waited for her early in the morning and when I tried to give it to her she strongly refused to take and told me that she’ll leave it at the door and if she is being asked she mention my name. I sent changed my facebook status and that I’m very upset she commented on it and asked me to “please delete it”. I sent her a msg saying that I understand why you don’t want to talk to me at work but why can’t I call you after work, but she didn’t reply. I got emotional and sent her a very long message telling her how I feel about her and how this is making me feeling, but she didn’t call or replied to my msg.
In the weekend I commented on her facebook profile pic with a sad face “ “ then she commented back with “why the sad face” I sent her a msg on facebook saying “if you really want to know why the sad face call me” …. She replied “I don’t want to talk im not in the mood”.
From what I know she is going to be handling “salary planning” and this is very confidential information and our manger is strongly concerned with that I do know that for sure and I’m sure that she have been told a very hurting words that forced her to stay back from me.
She keeps the facebook as a chanel she comment on my status and comments but she don’t talk to me on the phone I tried 4 time last weeked but she didn’t.
This is going on for 2 weeks now and im not sure what to do. Please Please advice.
Thanks
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EDITED: listen man i’m going to tell you what is going on. She already told you she will get back to you. quit pressuring her! she needs time to think about it without you trying to influence her.
that means leave her alone for like 2-3 weeks. get back to your own life. no gifts– that will just annoy her and make it look like you are trying to manipulate her. every time you act needy the way you are acting right now, you will push her away more and faster and she will have less chance of coming back to you ever. you are about to lose her forever if you haven’t already unless you just chill out and stop bugging her.
she will call you within 1-2 months guaranteed ONLY if you leave her alone and stop pressuring her. otherwise you will lose her forever.
be cool and not insecure. no gifts. no contact unless she initiates it.
she likes you but wants to be free of your influence in making this decision. if you give her the time to come around, she probably will. if not, you will lose her.
she’s acting wired? stop giving her so much coffee….
Hey there Office Romancer,
Everybody knows that offfice romance happens BUT i bet some bosses have RULES that say that employees CANNOT be openly romantic.
(I dont know WHY a person who has booked off sick would show up at the Office to say hello anyway. The boss will wonder if you were REALLY sick or faking it to get a paid day off. )
How do you guys get along when you are away from work?