I trust my bf a lot and he may have just browsed the site but how do I confirm or restore my trust in him? The last login date is three weeks back and he has been very intimate with me since then. I am meeting his family as well this week.
I don’t want to loose him, I like him a lot and he too likes me a lot.
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Well maybe he has been on the site for awhile but just forgot to switch it from single to dating. I mean, if you really trust him than there shouldn’t be a problem.
Or maybe he’s waiting on how things work out with the two of you to mark that he’s no longer single anymore.
I wouldn’t worry about it too much for the fact that you are meeting his family.
If he starts acting weird and is not paying as much attention to you and he used to or maybe he starts showing up late or cancels a date on you. That’s when i would start to worry.
Oh and also, if you set up a fake account to try and trap him and he is innocent. It’s going to look bad on you and he’s going to see that you don’t trust him, and then i would see you breaking up.
So don’t be too hasty on this.
Either he is a jerk, or created the profile before you were dating (and visited it briefly).
The question is, what were you doing on the dating site? Snooping around is a really common practice (and is very normal) in relationships, but does indicate you may be uneasy with your current situation. Do you have reason to suspect him of cheating?
It sounds as if he has no thoughts of leaving you (since you are meeting his family) but he could have a knack for cheating? Maybe some of your friends know his ex-s and could dig some info to see if he’s that kind of guy.
If you seriously are worried about this, in your situation, and very un-advisable, maybe create a false dating profile and try to hit on him? See if he replies?
Once again, not advisable. But that’s what I have to admit, would do.
How long have the two of you been together? If I were you I’d probably not mention it, but check back periodically to see if he’s been on.
But I really must ask you this: Why were you browsing a single site?
Honey that’s easy..1-866-99-MAURY !!..
if you’ve been together longer then three weeks and he’s logged in since I’d dump his ***. He’s looking around for someone else while having his fun with you in the meantime.
wait until after you meet his parents then check the profile again and if your still having these feeling just talk to him and tell him the truth dont yell or cry just talk
well, at first he might be a little mad because you were basically internet tsalkin him, but at least you’d be being honest.
make a fake name and send a mess on the site he was on.
act like you’re a diff. girl and that you’re interested and wait for a response.
you shoul right away tell him be like wtf is this **** i thought we were honest tell him straight up there shud be no lieing at all its just gunna ruin everything later on it happened to my sis she didnt do anything she found out he was cheating on her
Talk to him about it…I think if you both trust each other, you should be able to have a frank discussion about something like this and try to talk about it…
Good luck with that!
First, you need to find out, how old that website is, and when the last time he logged on there,,then confront him and ask ? WTF….if he asks why u were there, just say u just googled his name and it came up.
Just ask him about it. Don’t be angry or anything, that’ll just make him defensive.
just say “Somethings been bothering me lately…”
and ask.
Make sure to reassure that you trust him though. And that you were just confused.
that doesn’t mean anything. he might’ve made that profile before the two of you were ever dating and never logged back on. check out the last time he logged in and if he hasn’t logged on in awhile then he’s probably being faithful and all is well.
3 weeks is good. meaning that he didn’t go back on it for a while.
how did you guys meet? a website? if yes maybe he needed to say bye and that he isn’t interested in any other girls before that … could it be to close the account? when did he log in last before the 3 weeks, it could be an accident or w/e.
Its good needs it says 3 weeks, at least it doesnt say logged in ….
Make a phony account on the same site with fake pictures and everything. Lead him on and say you want to hook up with him for some no strings attached fun. Pick a city thats nearby to where you both live. Then see if he takes the bate. If he does than arrange to meet him, if he falls for it you have him dead to rights.
My advice is to be calm about it, and think through it carefully. first the obvious question: WHY are YOU on the site? If you can think of a reasonable answer for that question then your safe to ask your question, i repeat ASK, not yell, not cry/ask, just ask. then slowly, move the subject deeper and before you know it you WILL have your answer but, if it good or bad, its up to the truth.
Good luck, and don’t cry over it if its bad news, there is MORE men out there :3 k?
You have two choices. You could just be straight and ask him or you can keep checking up on it, and then confront him about it when you see that he has logged in again.
Either way your gonna have to realize that he isn’t the only one at fault. You were on that site also, which means you probably have an account too, or you happened to see it in the history log.
If I were you I would confront him right away, its better to clear the air as soon as possible rather than wait.
Good Luck
You know him better than I do. I google search people all the time, dont feel too bad.
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mabye he hasn’t updated it yet.
Make a fake account and contact him… see what he does.
Really you shouldn’t worry about it just ask him to change it so other girls don’t hit on him. simple..
Single technically means that he is not married…which he isn’t
Why were you on an online dating site to begin with? I think you should just ask him about it. Where you dating him three weeks ago?
How are you going to explain browsing on the site yourself? How did you find out it was there?
meybe its an old site that he hasnt logged into in a while
or maybe hes embarressed by you
well maybe he justed made the profile and didnt notice
I always leave my status single… i dont kow how to change it
my profile is single and i am in relationship. I don’t think that really matters unless ur married
He probably just forgot to change it.. i wouldn’t worry about it. But if you have to ask him like it’s not big deal!!
first wut were u doing on there?