This is regarding a girl I just met thru myspace just to let everybody know. Anyways, one day while I was browsing for people I knew in my area, i’m not a creeper so I tend to only message people I actually know in real life.
I came across her page and was intrigued by her unique profile pic, then I read this really deep meaningful poem she wrote. So I messaged her and told her how deep and meaningful her poem was. When I messaged her to tell you the truth, I did not expect a reply at all. I mean I didn’t even look at any of the pics she had posted in her album, had no idea whether she was cute or not, I just wanted to see what would happen.
Well she did reply and as of today we’ve been messaging for about 2 weeks. I asked her on a coffee date and she said she’d like to meet up some time, but she has no money at the moment, and so far we’ve still been messaging. and our messages aren’t small talk either, we were like talking about our common interests and how odd our family and friends are, stuff like that.
Here’s were I get a little worried that I might have shot myself in the foot, so to speak. So day before yesterday she’s tellin me how she enjoy’s thrift store hopping and meeting up with people downtown. So I figured I’d ask her if she wanted to meet up in downtown PDX at the Saturday market and check out the artists, were both into art, and its free. She did respond to my message but it was in reply to something I said jokingly about my sense of humor. She didn’t say yes, no, or maybe, didn’t even mention anything about me asking. So I message her real life friend, that shes told me a lot about, for some friendly advice, mainly to try and find out if this chick just enjoys my attention and really doesn’t care if we ever meet. I really am not interested in pursuing someone who is only messaging me to boost their own ego, I have a huge issue trusting people already I don’t need it to get any worse. Haven’t heard back from her friend yet even though she has read the message I sent her, I even have a message signature that has my cell# in it but still nothing. Any Ideas? Please……be gentle….
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I Don’t Get It, Did I Do Something Wrong? Asking A Girl I Met Online To Meet Up?4 comments to I Don’t Get It, Did I Do Something Wrong? Asking A Girl I Met Online To Meet Up? |
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Honestly, this happened to me. I was messaging this guy that was from my area for about a month. And like you said, it wasn’t just small talk. We talked about deep issues and our families and such. Well, since we both wanted to know more about each other, we decided to meet up in real life, but not alone. So, that’s what we did. We met up with friends, and now, we have been dating for 3 months.
So, just give it more time… Like asking her friend was a good thing… to see who and what she really is. Even though she didn’t reply, just give it time. If there is something there, whether a friendship or a relationship, I’m sure everything will work out…
girls constantly ignore a direct question and reply to something else, sometimes it’s to make you ask again, playing a little hard to get or a kick from the control/attention
I’d ask her again and if she avoids the question I’d be quite direct with her and say that she said she’d like to hook up and you’ve been trying to make that happen to no avail and that whilst you’d like to meet her you really don’t have time to waste on girls who just like an online ego kick with guys chasing them so you’ll leave the ball in her court and that if she want’s to see you then she has your contact details.
then simply don’t message her for at LEAST one week, take away the attention completely that you were giving her.
ok ok i exactly myself have that situation from myspace.she probably doesnt want to meet up because i mean your just a guy from myspace and she just wants to be careful.she just probably wanted to be a normal kind of person to be messaging any guy from myspace.you should probably not get too close it though.your probably just bothering her too much about if uyou want to meet her up so just let it go my friend
she may think its creepy to meet people she met on the internet. So just wait for a reply don’t message her anymore because she might find it creepy.