I’m a 23 year old gay man who unfortunately has never had a boyfriend and I am quite particular…not about how they look, just about they type of person they are!
I don’t like the club scene because from my experience, people seem to be after only one thing and that upsets me. I have only ever liked guys that have been my friends (who have all been straight unfortunately). It is really worrying me that there is something wrong with me. I have a profile on a gay dating site but never receive any messages etc. What should I do? It is made extra complicated as I am still a virgin and I feel that I have waited for a guy I like and now I couldn’t possibly lose my virginity to someone I don’t really know.
Any advice would be so appreciated!
Thanks very much…
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I do respect you for not losing your virginity in a club or to somebody that you would probably never see again. I would tell you hang in there, try not to think about it much because it would upset you and might cause you to pick the wrong guy. I say, try to go out and interact with other guys, like going to the gym, restaurants, beaches and movies that might attract the gay crowds. Be open-minded, say hello to people, initiate conversations and believe me you will find someone that you like or someone will find you. Be yourself, take your precautions (don’t trust people easily by opening up too much) and enjoy the moment of the conversation itself (as don’t worry about where this is going). It will come. he will come, just be optimistic and appreciate whatever nice things you have
I am not gay. But have had a lot of gay friends. So, you don’t want to do anything weird to find a guy? If you are gay, you should be able to spot another gay guy. I have no idea why, but gay guys have always tried to pick up on me. If you lived on Maui, Hawaii, I could tell you where to go.
I have a friend you could possibly like, but he doesnt like black guys so if youre black then nevermind. Just try the club thing again, not all guys are after sex. try going to places, like clothig stores where there are bound to be homos working, im sure yourll meet a nice man out there.
Have you tried looking for other peoples profiles???
man i’m so flippn’ lame….
anyway the other guy is right.. interaction with other guys ^_^
thats about all i can think of. And nothing is wrong with you!