Ok..I checked his email and thats how I found out. I know i was wrong but I had to know. Something was eating at me inside and he has done this before. He created the profile over the weekend and deleted it.(enought time to meet a few ladies) there were a few left over messages in his email. In the past he gave at least 5 women his number.Yes he tells me he loves me and there is know one else for him and we want to get married, but I don’t want to be hurt I’d rather be alone. I called him last night and left a message calling him by the screename he used and told him I’m done. He has called but i’m afraid to check the messages. I don’t want to get weak and feel the need to call him back. I love this man so much but I don’t trust him the way I know he trusts me. He says he wants me to…but I don’t.
Anyone..any advice from here?
What do I do next?
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As far as i am concerned giving his number to another lady is cheating. Listen to the messages he left and let the Boy beg on his knees for you. Don’t give in too easily though. Otherwise he will know that he can get away with it again
I’m sorry he’s treating you so badly but by staying with him you’re sending him the message that its ok for him to do this. You’re allowing him to behave this way.
Leave him now before you have to find out through messages or e-mails that he’s actually having a full blown affair.
You can do way better than this deceitful, cheating scumbag.
Its time for you to move on. If you stay with the guy, you will continue to get hurt. Don’t you deserve better? You’re selling yourself too short. There are others out there and there’s one out there that’ll treat you with the respect you deserve. Obviously there is no trust in this relationship and love without trust is nothing. You know exactly what to do, all you have to do it do it!
the more things change,the more they stay the same.oh yes,he wants to marry you and you can be the little women at home,forgiving him all his little indescretions,why?,because oh yes,you love him!!!.surely you deserve better than that?,just walk away,and don’t look back,don’t be a victim.
Run! He will never be totally honest with you.
Run fast, run far!
Really really really run!
(Even if he tries to be honest, How could you trust him?)
You can hurt now or later. You WILL hurt. How much and how long is up to you.
But RUN!
well talk to him and if he says no i dont them show him the dating site where you found him then if he still says i dont know them dump him
Cut your losses and chalk it up to experience. He doesn’t deserve you. Physical abuse is the next step if he gets control of you.
maybe you should have emailed him on his site and said hey big boy are you available tonite? maybe you and he would have had a laugh etc
He is just sorry he got caught, he’ll keep doing it, just in a stealthier way now.
No trust – no future. Have a good cry, and move on. He is a baddy, and you will not change him.
don’t weaken and let him get away with this-once a cheater, always a cheater
I’d leave him.
dump him..he does not love you or he wouldn’t do that!!
i would not marry this man. he is clearly looking for something that he thinks would be better, and you don’t deserve that. I think as soon as he finds a new girl he will dump you and you will be heartbroken. My opinion is that you should dump him before he gets the chance, and let him miss you and realize what he threw away by being an untrustworthy ***. You should never be with someone you can’t trust or who is trying to meet other women while he is with you. If you caught him doing that imagine what he has done that you don’t know about.
i did the same thing with my bf, except i took it further and made a name and pic of one of my freinds that he never met and started talking to him.and he said the same things ur bf is and if they never got caught they would still be doing it, watch out for other sites, there usually is more then one. there will always be a trust issue and u will always be wondering what he is doing when ur not around, its not worth it to feel like that. i think u did the right thing.
Confront him about it. If he gives you grief about going onto his email and finding this dirt on him, just tell him you felt there was something there and you were right. If he’s done it before to you, he’ll prolly just keep doing it. Unless he’s willing to whole heartedly promise to you never to do it again, I would dump him. It sucks and it’ll be rough for a while but it beats the hell out of being cheated on over and over again.
Well, face your fears, you have to check the messages now as you walked into this yourself. The best thing to do was to talk to him about it, face to face. If he’s someone you can’t do that with, then sadly to say, he’s not cut to be with you. If marriage was talked about, that’s a HUGE step. This means, talking/solving/creating problems together. If you’re scared to see what he says, then there’s a problem. A husband/BF should be someone you can share almost anything with…if you feel strong about him, then, check those message and call him back!!