Why Does My Bf Act This Way? Should I Dump Him Because Of This?

this guy that i’m seeing is great when we’re alone. he’s cool & down to earth & very respectful. but he portrays himself very different to everyone else. i started to see this side of him recently because i didn’t know much about his career until recently. he acts like a player & hangs out with a lot of nude models and girls that are party animals who do drugs and who i KNOW want him (they hit on him alllll the time & leave him messages on his profiles). he doesn’t do drugs, and he’s not a party animal.
it’s starting to get to me, but i know he does this only for his public image. but i don’t think it’s necessary for him to and i’m NOT going to tell him so! i just want to know if this shows his TRUE personality & do you think he is being fake to me b/c he knows i wouldn’t date him if he didn’t treat me really well? i’m starting to hate his public image but i love who he is when we’re alone behind closed doors! any advice on how to handle this? should i let him go while i still can?

A Horse Girl Asks For Help?

I want to get some help. I am a horse lover. But unfortunately for a long time before I could not find a friends who has the same interests with me. I was so lonely that time. I always ride on my horse without other partners. I do not remember how long has past but I know I will no longer be lonely any more, because I have found a very perfect site(horsedate.com) online where has thousands of horse lovers. However, I meet some difficulties. I am a little shy and have no experience about online date. Although there are thousands of members and many profiles attract me, I do not know how to begin my conversation. I saw many people there discuss in the forum and chat in the chat room, but I do not know what kind of topics can attract them and do not know how to express myself properly. So Could you or is there anyone can give me some advice? Thanks very much.

Found Out Boyfriend Of 3 Years On Date Site?

Ok..I checked his email and thats how I found out. I know i was wrong but I had to know. Something was eating at me inside and he has done this before. He created the profile over the weekend and deleted it.(enought time to meet a few ladies) there were a few left over messages in his email. In the past he gave at least 5 women his number.Yes he tells me he loves me and there is know one else for him and we want to get married, but I don’t want to be hurt I’d rather be alone. I called him last night and left a message calling him by the screename he used and told him I’m done. He has called but i’m afraid to check the messages. I don’t want to get weak and feel the need to call him back. I love this man so much but I don’t trust him the way I know he trusts me. He says he wants me to…but I don’t.
Anyone..any advice from here?
What do I do next?

What The Date Can I Watch Geminids In Malaysia ? What Time ? I’m Currently In North Of Malaysia.?

Here is what astronomers David Levy and Stephen Edberg have written of the annual Geminid Meteor Shower: “If you have not seen a mighty Geminid fireball arcing gracefully across an expanse of sky, then you have not seen a meteor.”
The Geminids get their name from the constellation of Gemini, the Twins, because the meteors appear to emanate from a spot in the sky near the bright star Castor in Gemini.
Also in Gemini this month is the planet Mars, nearing a close approach to the Earth later this month, and shining brilliantly with yellow-orange hue. To be sure, Mars is certain to attract the attention of prospective Geminid watchers this upcoming week.
Reliable shower
The Geminid Meteors are usually the most satisfying of all the annual showers, even surpassing the famous Perseids of August.
Studies of past find the “Gems” have a reputation for being rich both in slow, bright, graceful meteors and fireballs as well as faint meteors, with relatively fewer objects of medium brightness.
They are of medium speed, encountering Earth at 22 miles per second (35 kps). They are bright and white, but unlike the Perseids, they leave few visible trails or streaks. They are four times denser than most other meteors, and have been observed to form jagged or divided paths.
Geminids also stand apart from the other meteor showers in that they seem to have been spawned not by a comet, but by 3200 Phaethon, an Earth-crossing asteroid. Then again, the Geminids may be comet debris after all, for some astronomers consider Phaethon to really be the dead nucleus of a burned-out comet that somehow got trapped into an unusually tight orbit. Interestingly, on December 10, Phaethon will be passing about 11 million miles (18 million kilometers) from Earth, its closest approach since its discovery in 1983.
The prospects for this year
The Geminids perform excellently in any year, but British meteor astronomer, Alastair McBeath, has categorized 2007 as a “great year.”
Last year’s display was hindered somewhat by the moon, two days past last quarter phase. But this year, the moon will be at new phase on Dec. 9. On the peak night, the moon will be a fat crescent, in the south-southwest at dusk and setting soon after 8 p.m. That means that the sky will be dark and moonless for the balance of the night, making for perfect viewing conditions for the shower.
According to McBeath, the Geminids are predicted to reach peak activity on Dec. 14 at 16:45 GMT. That means those places from central Asia eastwards across the Pacific Ocean to Alaska are in the best position to catch the very crest of the shower, when the rates conceivably could exceed 120 per hour.
“But,” he adds, “maximum rates persist at only marginally reduced levels for some 6 to 10 hours around the biggest ones, so other places (such as North America) should enjoy some fine Geminid activity as well.
Indeed, under normal conditions on the night of maximum activity, with ideal dark-sky conditions, at least 60 to 120 Geminid meteors can be expected to burst across the sky every hour on the average (Light pollution greatly cuts the numbers).
The Earth moves quickly through this meteor stream producing a somewhat broad, lopsided activity profile. Rates increase steadily for two or three days before maximum, reaching roughly above a quarter of its peak strength, then drop off more sharply afterward. Late Geminids, however, tend to be especially bright. Renegade forerunners and late stragglers might be seen for a week or more before and after maximum.
What to do
Generally speaking, depending on your location, Gemini begins to come up above the east-northeast horizon right around the time evening twilight is coming to an end. So you might catch sight of a few early Geminids as soon as the sky gets dark.
There is a fair chance of perhaps catching sight of some “Earth-grazing” meteors. Earth grazers are long, bright shooting stars that streak overhead from a point near to even just below the horizon. Such meteors are so distinctive because they follow long paths nearly parallel to our atmosphere.
The Geminids begin to appear noticeably more numerous in the hours after 10 p.m. local time, because the shower’s radiant is already fairly high in the eastern sky by then. The best views, however, come around 2 a.m., when their radiant point will be passing very nearly overhead.
The higher a shower’s radiant, the more meteors it produces all over the sky.
But keep this in mind: At this time of year, meteor watching can be a long, cold business. You wait and you wait for meteors to appear. When they don’t appear right away, and if you’re cold and uncomfortable, you’re not going to be looking for meteors for very long! The late Henry Neely (1878-1963), who for many years served as a lecturer at New York’s Hayden Planetarium, once had this to say about watching for the Geminids: “Take the advice of a man whose teeth have chattered on many a winter’s night – wrap up much more warmly than you think is necessary!”
Hot cocoa or coffee can take the edge off the chill, as well as provide a slight stimulus. It’s even better if you can observe with friends. That way, you can keep each other awake, as well as cover more sky. Give your eyes time to dark-adapt before starting.

What Should I Wear On My Date This Friday (picture Of Me Included)?

I’m not forsure what we’re doing, but I think a versatile outfit would be nice….here’s what I look like http://profiles.yahoo.com/honkytonk_angel44 to help you determine what I should wear. Thanks so much for the advice!