Well I have a problem!! I can’t drive at all. I still need to go get my g1. I am a guy and I am 18 years old and never been on a date with a girl. I would like to but the thing thats holding me back is that I can’t drive, I live in a basement apartment and to make things worse I am chubby. I have lost a lot of weight and i am in a size medium in shirt and wear skinny jeans but I still feel really chubby since I still have a tummy and I am really hairy. I have too much body hair in my body. Its like a monkey and I will always be embarassed of my body. I won’t take my shirt off when I go to a beach or stuff like that. What is your advice? I really need help? Also, no girl has interest in me and I am really ugly in appearance. I don’t know if the link works but here is a picture of me What can I do?http://www.teenspot.com/profiles/Superbo…
Let’s start at the beginning… I met this guy on Thanksgiving of this past year and we hit it off great. We didn’t get to see each other much, but we talked on the phone and text messaged each other a lot. We started sleeping together right away and it just felt right being with this guy.
There were a couple times in the beginning when I would come across something and consider breaking contact with him, but after confronting him about it, everything seemed to be ok. We became official a few days before New Year’s Eve.. he even told me he loved me around Christmas time! I admitted my feelings the night we became official and everything seemed great.
I know he has a lot of female friends and his best friend is also a girl, whom he dated for a while a few years back. Well recently, I’ve been noticing one of his girl friends leaving him a lot of comments on his myspace (he never accepts mine) and added her and his best friend to his top (I’m not on there). After reading through the comments, I figured out they were hanging out late one night at his house, watching movies and she was doing her laundry?!… the same day he came to see me, but had to go home after a few hours because he had things to do.
We both have profiles on another website, and I was bored one day and ended up on his page, when I noticed in the “You spend a lot of time thinking about” section he had put “thinking about this cute girl named ____”, which is the friend, not me. I asked him about that and he said it wasn’t a big deal, she just suggested an edit to that section and he accepted it… even though its still there a few days later and he knows it hurt me. Also, while we were hanging out one day, his phone went off for a text message and we were laying together while he opened his phone. It was a picture of the friend wearing a shirt with her boobs hanging out and she was in a sort of seductive pose… I didn’t say anything, just got real quiet for a while.
Whenever I confront him on things now, he says I’m being paranoid. When we first got together, he would always send me cute messages and call me cute pet names… and now it seems whenever I hit him up, I’m just annoying him, he barely tells me he loves me… and is always busy. Let’s not forget what I found out a couple weeks ago. (While I was down in Fresno at my friends when we first met, he told me he couldn’t go with because he was going out of town with his family. Well, while he was gone, he broke his hand.) He was talking about his most recent ex and said something about what happened between them one weekend and he broke his hand. So I asked him if it was that weekend I was in Fresno and he said yes. And I called him out on him telling me he was with his family, but yet he was down in So Cal trying to patch things up with his ex. And he said he only lied to me because he didn’t want to make me mad. I told him that was fucked up because he’s complaining about how she played him when he was playing me from the beginning too. He said none of it matters now because he’s committed to me and only me. He said he’s never slept or done anything with anyone since the first time with me, and before me, he didn’t do anything for 6 months… I’m starting to not believe it.
Honestly, I’m totally torn on what I should do. I really like this guy, but I don’t think all this **** is worth it. I want to call him out on everything, but I’m scared of what’s going to happen. Any thoughts or advice?
P.S.
I’m turning 24 next month, he turned 21 at the beginning of this month. We see each other, maybe once a week, due to financial problems.
I’ve dated my boyfriend for over 3 years now. Living together for 2. I moved from my home state(which is 3,000+miles away) to be with him. I met him on yahoo…and we hit it off. Friendship then moved onto romance. He has done some pretty crule things to me. And yet I forgave him. He is constantly on single sites and when he has profiles on various social networking sites I’ve noticed he does not indicate if he is in a relationship. And portrays himself as a single man., It really hurts my feelings and makes me often wonder why am I even here.
He is on disability and stays home with my two children and his child, I work fulltime outside of the home. He recently got a query keyboard cell phone with the simply everything plan so he has unlimited texting and web usage. He is on yahoo messanger ALL THE TIME….and yes I was a snoop and I looked in his yahoo….and saw some convo’s he had with apprent female friends….needless to say I wasnt too happy….while I’m gone all day working he’s at home chatting it up with other chicks….sucks! I have a hard time trusting him,……because he has lied in the past about who he talks to.
Some of the women he talks to are ones he met online around the same time as we did,,,,,and he tried to make a relationship with them….and he is ALWAYS TEXTING AND CHATTING……wakes in the middle of the night…and basically holds his phone hostage….he hides it an all…..I wouldnt care if he talked to just friends….but the fact he is sooooo secretive about who he talks to and what about is alil nerve racking to me.
I get paid every 2 weeks and give him my whole check except for maybe 50-100 bucks I get to keep for myself….If Im luckey….And I dont even wanna begin on the baby mama drama I gotta deal with….Im sooooo stressed and feel unloved…..I can sit here and watch him talk away to other people and carry on and on….but when I try to talk to him he is all cranky and hard to deal with…
What should I do….I feel stuck cause I have a great job here and recently got a 75 cent an hour raise….and yeah I could move back home but theres no jobs and I would have to start all over again…meaning housing job and home furnitions……..I feel stuck please gimme good advice!!!!!!!!!!
girls, here is my dating profile..
Am not sure what I should put and what I should take off .. Please advice me..
What attractive and not so attractive in it.http://www.plentyoffish.com/member456546…
any help even a small one is appreciated
Hi everybody, would you please give me some advice?
(Sorry for the lengthy question, hope you won’t mind)
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and due to work and financial reasons we won’t be able to get together for several months.
We try to keep in touch through email and messenger with webcam and voice chat, almost everyday but lately he comes online like once or twice a week and won’t call or text me. He says he’s busy, that his pc is broken, connection is acting up and what not.
I started to look around old profiles from email accounts he supposedly didn’t used any more. It turned out that he was pretty active in his Yahoo 360 and other sorts of social networks. As all activities are registered with date and time, I noticed he logged in when he claimed to have no access to the Internet. To make things worst, almost all his contacts were women and all his comments had a high flirtatious vibe.
I confronted him and he apologized for being away, but for some reason he couldn’t admit that sometimes he preferred to go to such sites instead of talking to me. Even though I showed him direct links to some examples of it, he kept saying “I’m sorry that was weeks/months ago, I don’t remember it”, etc.
He swears he loves me and a couple of times I’ve tried to break up he insists until he convinces me to get back. I still love him, however I can’t trust him and now I’m some kind of net police that keeps checking on his websites to see if he has any updates, for which he most likely has an incredible explanation. And what if he has more accounts I’m not aware of?
I don’t know what to say to help him to come clean of what he really feels about me. Will he admit what’s going on or should I just walk away if he’s not convincing enough?
Thanks in advance!
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