Can’t Help Being Embaressed In Public, Am Really Self-conscious. Any Advice?

My problem is guys dare not be seen with me – they’re embarressed. The problem is my breasts have grown too much – guys are both grossed out about it and embaressed to be seen in public with me, which is why I can never even get to the first date. Any tactics from people with similar problems?
I’ve tried my hand at online dating to no avail, here’s my profilehttp://www.okcupid.com/profile/alissa106

3 comments to Can’t Help Being Embaressed In Public, Am Really Self-conscious. Any Advice?

  • I have to be honest-I can’t see your problem.Oh,yes,your chest grew-but you have all limbs and accoutrement’s intact,you have a lovely smile,and you are able to converse. Plus,judging by your profile,you own a sense of humour. If your only bugbear is the size of your breasts,I think you’re making excuses for not making the absolute max out of a simply magnificent natural asset,Hon. Per-lease don’t tell me you don’t have any red-blooded hetero men in Texas who wouldn’t scoop you up at the first chance,coz I simply won’t believe it!! my mate Viccy was REALLY badly burned,lost her nose,skin,toes,eyelids,the whole works. I sat by her hospital bed night after night when they didn’t even know if she’d ever ‘wake up’ again. But she did,eventually-and the very 1st thing she did was crack a joke!! THAT’S courage. She’s now living nearby,with her new b/f,who is devoted to her. If my mate Viccy can go through that and STILL come up fighting,I’m damned sure you don’t have a real problem,just a perceived one.USE what God gave you Al,they’re given toYOU, for a REASON!!

  • jamie

    Ok amend your statement. The “RIGHT GUY” dare not be seen with you. I don’t know the type of guys you are associating with, but areal man, a real gentleman, wouldn’t let your body type determine whether he went out with you. You just need to find a confident man that can get to know you for who you are. If you are religious you may want to try your church. Many churches have groups for their younger members to socialize. Another question is are the men embarrassed or are you. If you seem uncomfortable in your own skin people can pick up on that. Try to show that you are confident and proud not only of who you are but of the assets that you offer. ALL assets. Show you are proud of yourself and your body. Good luck. I’m sure the right one will come along and he will have been worth the wait.

  • I have the same problem, minus the breasts. . except I am the only one who thinks badly of myself. . people tend to take a liking to me, it’s weird. .
    Well, everyone is special. . .really. . everyone is unique, no matter what, & you need to realize that you’re fine the way you are & it’s their problem, I mean a lot of guys are jerks anyways.
    & anyways, I looked @ your profile & I think you’re pretty! =D
    Anyways, I wish you the best of luck. =]
    Help w/ mine if you want?:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…

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