i have a date next weekend with a girl that is catholic, she goes to chucrh every few weeks,and had a cross on, on one of her pictures( we met @ a dating site), ideally i will not date a religious person, but generally if they are moderate i can accept it.
however i wouldn’t date somebody who is pro life politically, and personally-i do not want to have kids(she wrote undecided when it comes to kids on her profile), is it ok to ask her if shes pro choice politically on a first, second date?
any advice will be appreciated.

I would suggest you ask her because if she is pro-life and you are not going to change your mind even with more education on the subject…then its best for her to know that before.
I mean all the things that go with it stats and everything. It takes a lot to be fully educated on one subject. Thats all I was saying.
And I would say if it is something you are passionately for…you should ask on the first date.
Personally if I was the girl I would rather know that you were pro-choice. Because I am complete opposite. I think it is only fair before she really starts to like you…to know where you stand.
It’s trouble and will only show that beliefs can be an obstacle. Less filters for choosing dates the better.