I’m looking for a FREE dating site. Wanted to know if anyone knew of any dating sites they have used that have worked well for them. Please let me know thanks
My partner left for work not long ago and left his hotmail open. As I went to close it down I noticed that their was a MSG from aussie match maker (dating service). I didn’t go into it cause it shocked me so much and I closed it down but it started to eat at me so I went onto the sight and look up details that would be close to his and he has a profile on it saying that he’s single and asking for a relationship etc. We have been together for 9 years. I thought everything in our relationship was perfect. We purchashed a house together talked about marriage, children and the furture. So please don’t say dump his *** cause theirs so much more to it than that. I really need some advice cause im at work and freaking out!
There’s a girl I went to school with that I have a crush on but I never asked her out because she had a boyfriend. We got along really well and if she wasn’t dating him I am almost certain she would have said yes if I asked her out. From what I could tell whenever we were talking, her body language was good and she would flirt with me. However, since I graduated I lost touch with her.
The last time I saw her was over a year ago at a party (about 2 years after I graduated) and we hugged and briefly talked, which was really nice but it was hard to have a full conversation in such a loud setting. She seemed excited to see me (and the same for me to see her) and we exchanged phone numbers. Sadly, I never called her because I didn’t know if she was still with her boyfriend or not (I found out had been broken up way after).
Now, I want to muster up the courage to call her and ask her out (it’s scary but you don’t get rewarded unless you take a risk), but I have two problems:
1) I don’t know if she has boyfriend and
2) What do I say to her if I phone her? Wouldn’t it seem weird if I just called her out of the blue just to chit-chat after so long?
I don’t think she would mind but it would awkward if I don’t give her a proper reason for why I’m phoning her. It might seem like I’m calling just to ask her out.
There may be two other options I might be open to though. Is sending her a text message a bad way to break the ice (I’m against this but if there are any good suggestions on how to go about this please let me know)? She has Face-book but I don’t and I really don’t plan on signing up for it… but it would be an innocent-looking way to connect with her (but it is so much work and time to maintain a profile and I have been an avid Face-book basher to all my friends).
Anyways, thanks for reading this and I appreciate any advice you can give.
Okay. I’m in a really big rut right now. I have no idea how to fix things. Here is the issue…
My boyfriend, Brian, had a really big issue with me when we first started dating. He wanted me to let go of my past and stop talking to my exes. I agreed with some resistance. Fast forward. Awhile back ago, he saw me on my exes myspace page and thought I was writing to him. While I have had a small amount of contact with him in the year and a half, I did decide to quit talking to him. We got over that issue, but it still comes up. Now, Brian has a myspace page (private profile) and won’t add me so I don’t know who he’s talking to. So, about a month ago, my gay friend called me out of the blue and Brian answered my phone since I was sleeping (I work graveyard shift), took a message, and later asked me who it was. He got upset that “guys were calling my phone” (even though this was the first one) and started talking to this chick named Natalie that he says is a lesbian. Well, then tonight, I was cleaning out my phone and I had a couple numbers stored under my friend Julie’s name. I didn’t recognize them so I called them and then deleted them when I got no answer. Then later, I’m about to get in the shower to get ready for work, and my phone rings. Brian tells me to say hello, and when I do, he puts the phone to his ear. I guess it was my ex. I don’t know why I stored his number under her name, but it’s been there for a long time. I promised Brian I don’t talk to Kris, but he doesn’t believe me. Now, almost 3 weeks ago, we had a huge blowup and he was going to leave and move back to Florida (we’re currently in Indiana). It was because I wasn’t giving him enough time to himself and he felt he had to do thinking for 3 people. We talked about things and he said he would give me 3 weeks to prove I was worth it (apparently some other girl told him she wanted to prove it to him too). Tonight he made the comment that I obviously can’t prove it to him. I haven’t talked to any guys in awhile. I promised myself I wouldn’t. I really love Brian and I want to be with him. We were engaged until three weeks ago, and things have been fine until tonight. We also have an 8 month old son together, and I’m worried I might be pregnant even though the test came out negative. I don’t know what to do now. These are the only instances, and they always seem to pop up at the worst time (and when Brian just happens to ‘stumble’ upon them). I think he might try to tell me he’s leaving again, and I don’t know what to do or say? I could really use some advice. Anyone? I need all the help you have to offer… Thank you!
I know a girl from work and been dating for two months and we like each other very much.
One day, i was sick i went to her office the next day and she didn’t even looked at me…i told her i was sick and she talked to me in a very formal way. i tried to approach her but she was in a bad mood and it seems that I bugged her by asking what is going on.
After the weekend I went to her office and told her that I would like to call you for a personal matter and she said no I’ll call you when it is the right time. I waited for two days with no luck, then I saw her on the MSN and we talked she told me that the reason is that she have been told by the management of our company not to make a romantic relationships at work and they mention my name because it was clear that we have something going on. In the same conversation I asked her to talk on the phone and she said that she no. in the last working days of last week I bought her a box of chocolate and waited for her early in the morning and when I tried to give it to her she strongly refused to take and told me that she’ll leave it at the door and if she is being asked she mention my name. I sent changed my facebook status and that I’m very upset she commented on it and asked me to “please delete it”. I sent her a msg saying that I understand why you don’t want to talk to me at work but why can’t I call you after work, but she didn’t reply. I got emotional and sent her a very long message telling her how I feel about her and how this is making me feeling, but she didn’t call or replied to my msg.
In the weekend I commented on her facebook profile pic with a sad face “ “ then she commented back with “why the sad face” I sent her a msg on facebook saying “if you really want to know why the sad face call me” …. She replied “I don’t want to talk im not in the mood”.
From what I know she is going to be handling “salary planning” and this is very confidential information and our manger is strongly concerned with that I do know that for sure and I’m sure that she have been told a very hurting words that forced her to stay back from me.
She keeps the facebook as a chanel she comment on my status and comments but she don’t talk to me on the phone I tried 4 time last weeked but she didn’t.
This is going on for 2 weeks now and im not sure what to do. Please Please advice.
Thanks
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