Don’t feel love or empathy, but knows how to act to make the demeanour fit the situation.
Married and have children, have never abused the spouse or the children.
Manipulates and lies, but doesn’t bother with little meaningless lies.
Feels remorse and shame over mistakes, and changes behaviour to avoid future mistakes.
Don’t care about animals but have pets and treat them well.
Haven’t worked for many years and has never had a steady job.
Lies to look better and greater, doesn’t leave the home or aspire for greatness in reality.
Has a multitude of profiles on different dating sites and s/m sites in the purpose of manipulating people for the thrills. Wins the trust of members and spend much time giving advice about how to recognize online predators.
Has a dominant personality but doesn’t force it on other persons.
Has never committed violent crimes but is a thief, has never been caught for any crime.
Understands that it’s not “normal” to be and act that way.
Pretends to have no secrets but becomes unbalanced if someone comes close to revealing one of the secrets.
Acts, looks and behaves “normally”.
ladies, if you’re not in a relationship with a guy (its just casual – not discussed yet – but intimate with him) and find out he has a profile for a dating site – would this be a reason to stop seeing the guy?
I’m already 19 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, I usually just date people and I don’t date much either… usually I end up being too busy and just stop seeing the person or I end up in the “friend zone”, which happens a lot.
What do girls look for in a guy anyways? That their funny, that they have money, their really confident or that they are good looking? What should I do to stand out more? Am I being too nice to girls? Cause apparently girls like jerks, should I just be more cocky? I usually go for white girls, so is it just because I’m Asian?
I’m in the CF reserves (or what Americans call the national guard), is that a turn off for girls? I dress kind of preppy, usually dress shirts, jeans, etc, is that lame or something?
Am I just ugly? Would you date me? http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/NSZ4BL7GEDUT…
I’m planning to hitting the bars more this summer to find myself an amazing girl, so any advice would help, I don’t mind advice that’s blunt/honest, I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong
he’s 21 and I am 24 read his profile and anyone tell me if you would go out with him or not.
PROFILE
Hi, I’m Spencer. I’m a new christian. Until about 6 months ago I had never attended church very much and I have had a pretty rough past. I’ve been in and out of jail and all though jail is a pretty bad place to be I think that the last time I went to jail was the best thing that ever happened to me because it just so happened that this guy named Andy would go to the jail and preach to the inmates weekly and he helped me to accept the Lord into my heart. When I got out of jail I was invited to his church and because he had been so nice to me and didn’t look down on me like alot of other churches had I decided to go. To be honest I didn’t think that I would keep going because I figured that they would look at me as an outcast because of the things that had happened in my life but surprisingly they welcomed me with open arms and hearts and now that church is like a second home to me and I love it and all the people that attend it. Andy helped me accept the Lord into my heart and we are now close friends and we also work together. I know now that if you give your life to the God that no one can ever hurt you unless it is his will. I have learned that he controls every little detail in your life and I can’t wait to fulfill his plan for me!!!! I love him with all of my heart and I have turned from my sinful ways. I’m kinda new at this christian thing still but it’s been truly amazing so far and I’m not really looking for anything because I know the Lord will take care of me. but the qualities that are most important to me is what’s on the inside. I don’t care if your big, small, short or tall. All I care about is that your a true christian and that you live for God. I want a girl who will help me live my life for God. If your one of those judgemental people then don’t bother writing me because I’m not the kind of guy you want to talk to. But if not feel free to write. If you have any questions just ask. I’m brutally honest and I know that I’m forgiven for all of my sins through the blood of Jesus and I’m not ashamed of my sins although I do regret them but no one is perfect so why try to be. Just do your best to live for the man up stairs and he will take care of you. Well I hope to hear from you soon.
AND THESE ARE THE MESSAGES HE HAS SENT ME DOES HE SOUND SARCASTIC
1ST MESSAGE
hi, I’m spencer as you already know. I have been in trouble with the law before but that is all over now. I’m no longer that guy I put that on my profile so that people would know because I want to meet someone that won’t judge me for my past. I know I messed up and I paid the price and I’m square now and don’t plan to go back. I was born again and I’ve excepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and my life has truely changed amazingly. I love life now and I actually have a few friends that are into law enforcement and fire rescue and things of that nature. In fact, I’m planning on joining the volunteer firefighters soon. I just hope that I can get in and pass the physical and everything which I’m sure I can. I understand that your going into law enforcement and I will understand if you don’t wanna give me a chance because of my past and if you don’t it’s cool. Well I hope to hear from you soon but if not……God bless and have a wonderful night. Thank you for your time.
Spencer~
2ND MESSAGE
Hey, I wasn’t in prison just jail and no I don’t hang out with those kind of people anymore. (lol) I am turning my life around and I try to surround myself with good law abiding christians. I don’t want anything to do with that old life I had. So you don’t have to worry about me getting into trouble. (lol) well anyway I hope to hear from you soon.
Have a nice day.
Spencer~
Women I need you advice would you consider dating him or not?
I have recently found my ex boyfriend, who I dated at school on facebook. We were good friends before we started dating. We dated 8 years ago and the break up left me feeling low and depressed. The break up was partly to do with our friends not getting on with us. He treated me very badly and it carried on though college too. We were both on the same course at college. I never knew where I stood with him. He kept giving me mixed signals. Once I left college I felt like to much happened betweem us to stay friends, so I keep away and moved out of the area. I have always felt like I have never found closer within myself and the whole episode has been hanging over me for eight years. To this day I still deeply affected by what went on. I don’t love him anymore, but always felt there was something behide his behaver. It will never justerfile the way he carried on. A few months ago, I was looking though facebook at people I used to know and came across my ex. I saw his profile and he was dating a bloke. It was a shock at first, but everything started falling into place and I decided to send him a message. As soon as I did he replyed. We got talking and he told me he came out gay to his family and friends three years ago and he kinda felt different thoughout his life. I feel at last I have got the closer I so long for and I feel sorry for him. The problem is, he wants to meet up, when I am in the area, but not sure if I should meet up with him, I have not seen him in five years since leaving college. I no longer look at him in that light anymore. Any advice would be welcome
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