I caught my boyf browsing a dating site last week as I looked at his history on his laptop. He used to be on the site (and I have also ) it before he met me and then took himself off it after he met me. He claims he does not have a profile. I thought it was weird that he was even looking though..it showed that he was must have done a search for women in our city too so it wasn’t just girls all over the country. He says that he was looking at funny profiles too and was not on there to look for someone else cos he is with me. I can’t get it out of my head though. I want to trust him but how do I know that he has not logged in and chatted to these girls? We have been together 3 months…now I am not sure about him.(he is 32 I am 27) Even though I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. He also says thats the only time he has looked on there and he’s with me so why would he be looking for someone else. We have already had a big talk about it. I just can’t forget about it tho for some reason. Help!!
Some of my mates reckon its Ok to browse thru those sites just to see who’s on it for a laugh. It still weirds me out though. Advice please!!! :0
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1, check the tips of that website. I’m 6’7″ 270lbs, and I’m attracted to petite girls who are a lot shorter than me. I used to think that the reason I had so much trouble was because I was overweight, so I toned my body up and lost over 80lbs, I have a lot better physic now and I’ve built up a lot of confidence since then, but still I get rejected. I believe myself to have a decent face and my personality is of a gentle demeanor. Despite the fact that I’m a little intimidating in my size many women think I’m funny, Charming, and I often get that dreaded line, “I wish I could find a guy like you.” or “Whoever gets you is Damn lucky.” But of course when I think that means they would consider dating me it doesn’t and end up with the “lets just be friends.” or “I don’t think of you that way.” I don’t know what else to do, I could lower my standards, but the heart feels what it feels. I was just wondering if any of you ladies had any advice, If you need to see what I look like before you can say, there’s an old pic on my yahoo profile. It’s a picture of my face so it shouldn’t matter that I’ve toned up since then, but my face has gotten thinner too, and my jaw structure is more defined. Any advice at all would be helpful. i need some advice on my relationship of 8 months. my girlfriend has been on a swinger’s website, i was ok with it because i didn’t know it was a social networking website until i looked into it. im not a swinger and she says she isnt but her friends are. she says she only uses the site to talk to her girlfriends. she has pics of herself on there and guys always message her trying to hookup. theres a guy that lives in my neighborhood that has been writing her trying to hookup and she told me he is a joke and laughed at him. i checked out the guys facebook to see if i recognized him, and my gf was on his friends list! it didnt make any sense, if she didnt want anything to do with him on that swingers website, why have him on a personal site like facebook?? she said she didnt even realize she just accepted everyone down the list. it sounded like bs. she said she didnt do anything wrong. if i was talking to other girls she would flip out. she said well i get hit on outside. i said thats different out side you cant control but online you can. i didnt like guys emailing her to hookup. so i told her i didnt like all this and was gonna break up with her over it. she said she would delete the site no stupid site is worth losing me over. she told me she DELETED the account and even lost money over it. a few days later I checked it out, and her profile is still there! all she did was block it from free members from viewing. i later told her about it and was pissed and ended it. she then kept saying she deleted it and even got a confirmation letter from the site stating the account was frozen. frozen? she was supposed to deleted it and she said she did. i asked the customer service people there and they said they dont freeze accounts. nothing makes sense. she kept saying she deleted it and i checked again and she blocked it from being viewed. so she never actually deleted it and told me she did. she has been trying to make me feel bad about this and finally told me she loves me and now were not together. she wants to see me soon to talk things over – should i not take her back? does this situation sound messed up? I met a beautiful lady on-line. We had a lot in common. We went out to dinner, and spent 4 hours talking and having a good time. We both decided that we wanted to see each other again. The week after, my son and I went on our annual fishing trip. When I got back in town, she told me that she had something that she wanted to talk about. So I went over to her house. She told me that she might have cancer. I told her that I didn’t care about that. I even joked with her (it made her feel better) about if she lost her hair, I would shave mine off too. I told her that this issue didn’t affect the way I felt about her. She seemed to understand but told me that she needed space. I told her I would give her space. I would still call her on occasion to find out how she was. She never did call me back. Then I found out today she put her profile back on the dating website. Can anybody tell me why someone would say they want a relationship, and then turn around and start looking for someone else. |
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