I just started dating someone who I have known for over two years through work. He is a programming contractor where I used to work. When he heard me no longer work there, he asked me out for a date. At the end of the first date, he gave me a hug and tried to kiss me, but I turned my head away since I wasn’t ready for a kiss yet. He said he had waited for two years. The next day, he asked me out for lunch before he headed back home (he lives 2-1/2 hrs. away). At the end of the lunch, he told me until he got his first kiss, he is keeping his match.com profile. I liked him and was attracted to him, but now I felt he is kind of pushy and tried to rush things when I want to take my time since I just left my ex-boyfriend of 10 months because he was a total liar. I will be seeing him again soon, the 3rd date, what should I do if he try to kiss me again, which I’m sure he will. I don’t want to ruin the chance with him, but then I wasn’t ready for the kiss. Pushy personality is kind of a turn-off for me. Please advise.